The man im not dating
With the way the world insists that men and women can't ever be friends, your suspicious significant others are just reacting to what they've heard their entire lives. Trouble is this amazing new man already has a woman at home. Every couple of days I get an email from another woman telling me they’re dating a married man, or a man who has a long-term girlfriend, but it’s OK because, “He’s going to leave her.” Here is your official David Wygant slap in the face…I'm not saying we deserve a medal for dealing with the pressure of everyone's suspicions and expectations and still managing to maintain kick-ass friendships in the process, but ... Here are 34 things only we women with male best friends truly understand.Even if you keep your own clothes in a giant pile in the middle of the room, you're basically Rachel Zoe when he's trying to figure out which pair of khakis to buy (try to talk him out of the ones with the pleats kindly, if you can).It’s always the same promises, and these women are deep into this thing. It’s just a fact, and there’s nothing you can do about it. If he was truly in love with you, he’d be planning his escape to you as we speak.Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.Yes, he has feelings for you in the heat of the moment, but if he hasn’t left his wife, children, and home, he isn’t going to. I don’t care how many trips he takes you on, or rings that he buys you. So many women fall for the fairytale idea that somehow he’s going to leave his family behind, and ride off into the sunset with you.
You may find yourself going to absurd lengths to show that you're not a sexual threat, like talking in her presence about your many interesting gastrointestinal issues, or making sure to wear your least-flattering, most coffee-stained clothes when all three of you go out together.Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week.One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.But for whatever reason, I've typically also had more close male friends than the average lady.
When you're a woman with a male best friend, people think that you're up to something.
If he’s giving you excuses why he’s not with you completely, they’re exactly that…excuses. I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives.