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It is just a show they are putting on to try and get you to have sex with them and in their hearts they resent it and it damages any true intimacy that might be between you!If you want their feelings and kind/thoughtful actions to be real toward you, then they require “quality” sex on a regular basis. You must choose (yes it is a mental choice on your part) to become aroused and give YOURSELVES fully and completely to him with no reservation.Sex is the path that God created to draw your man to you and bind the two of you together.Your husband not only has a Physical NEED for sex (just like he needs to eat food and drink water to survive) he also has an Emotional need for it.Obey God and do it his way and you (and your entire family) will reap His bountiful blessings.Disobey God and do it your way and it brings nothing but misery and pain.Among other things, it is the magnet that draws and the glue that binds your husband to you.You women want to have a close and intimate “oneness” relationship with your husband?
Why don’t you share in deep and meaningful conversations and share your feelings together?
However, the Bible does describe three kinds of relationships with the opposite sex and gives certain characteristics of each relationship (there are others such as parent/child and sibling, but they don't clarify the issues of dating).
One kind of relationship the Bible describes is friendship.
Too many women want to try and make this a complex issue and discuss it (ad nauseam) from every possible angle. You are not serving Christ but Satan and Christ (if you even know Him) is severely grieved by your wretchedly SINFUL behavior. You cannot even fathom the amount and depth of damage that you are doing to your husband, your marriage, your children and consequently… This is yet another area where women are their own worst enemies!
Women have a thousand excuses for why they don’t “want” or “feel” like having sex with their husbands but when you blow away all of the smoke and smash all of the mirrors it all boils down to just… If you engage in this wretchedly sinful behavior, you are heaping tons of damage and pain and suffering on yourselves and everyone you claim to love most!
There is not enough plain talk in the world theses days.