’” There are plenty of men in their thirties and forties who use the site (and plenty of more advanced age as well, if that’s the direction your heart and ardor trend). They’re real, and they can be spectacular, but their nature is more varied, and often more personal, than you’d expect.
The average evening consists of a very nice dinner filled with eye contact and deference to the woman’s taste in cuisine and conversation, but once there’s a comfort level established, magical ocean cruises and spontaneous evenings at the casino absolutely can and do happen.
One of the many common threads that emerged between Katheryn and Lana was their selectivity—a choosiness not based on wealth or material enticements, but on the man’s character, which both women feel can be largely assessed before agreeing to meet a potential Sugar Daddy in person. If he assumes vast riches compensate for poor conversational skills, he’s out.
While they don’t presume to speak for all Sugar Babies or Secret Benefit members, as far as they’re concerned, if a man opens the online conversation by essentially asking “how much? that comes with financial stability, the capacity to teach them something they don’t already know.
But, she says, “Whether you show up with 0 or sunflowers, I just want to know you care enough to pay attention.”Much like the many men prize just being in the presence of a vibrant, attractive, interesting younger woman, the women of Secret Benefits often gain something worth more than money by keeping company with these highly successful men.
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“If you’re an older man with salt-and-pepper hair,” says Lana, “I am falling in love.”So Lana and Katheryn want it all, but aren’t they just pinning their hopes on a fantasy, of the mature, sexy older man who values everything an open-minded younger woman brings to the table, and not just her body?
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